what's the point of this space when 'distance' and 'capsicums' aren't actually the most disgusting things in the world after all?
Oops, my apologies for a late anniversary post (yeah I know you ain't expecting this), but well better late than never? Heh. Just like how I told you I want to go through 2 years of LDR with you, and that I would bear with the temporary lost of my favourite companion than not giving you, us, a chance to come this far. You're the first person I've came so far together with, even though there are really bad fights and nights but I'm glad you still chose to hang on and stick with me and tell me you love me every single night, except the nights you fell asleep hahaha!
I love the fact we have both grown so much together since last year. Looking back at our pictures always make me smile. It always reminds me of how loved I felt whenever I'm with you. People say, people in photographs changes but I believe that we will always maintain our relationship exactly how we all started. I've never once thought that our honeymoon period will only last for 3-6 months like what people say, because I think we are really devoted and clingy hehe. I'm sorry you have to constantly assure me when I'm feeling insecure on some days - but you know, I can't help it!! You need to know you're an attractive person and I'm an extremely selfish, overly-attached human. I do not mind telling you that every single day if you aren't gonna agree with me on that, hahaha.
I'm thankful you gave me the chance to be your girlfriend; for healing my emotional wounds from my shitty pasts, for always reminding me that pimples aren't gonna make me ugly totally, for always raging with me when I rant, for always wanting me to be the first to see your hair cut, for making me realize that being in love is a beautiful thing, for bringing out the best in me, for being a weirdough just to make me smile, for being my source of motivation on days when I'm apart from you. Thank YOU for this amazing one year, baby. I can't wait to spend the rest of the years with you.
I love you.
*hugs and kisses*
Before this day end, I just wanna say HAPPY 1ST YEAR ANNIVERSARY BABY!!!! One year flashed by so fast. Before we know it, 8 months of LDR passed by just like that. Time is too slow for those who wait, too swift for those who fear, too long for those who grieve, too short for those who rejoice, but for those who love, time is eternity.
1 year ago on this day, I asked you for the privilege to be
your boyfriend and gave you a ring. When you say yes, I recalled I was so happy
I was smiling all the way home! Days after that were just fun, joy and
laughter. I’ve never felt so happy before! Although the ring broke, I’m so glad
our relationship remained intact. Our connection still remained as strong as
the start of this wonderful relationship! Thank you for coming into my life and
staying in my heart! After a year, your laughter still captures my heart, your
smile steals my breath away and your smell is still mesmerising as ever! 😍
I remember the day when I told you that I like someone and
still deciding if I should tell her since I’m going to Australia to study soon.
You told me that I should enjoy my remaining days in Singapore to spend every
minute and second with her. That’s exactly what we did! ☺️☺️ All the nights walking
in the park, all the late night ice cream and refusing to go home after the
clock strikes 12. We could never get enough of each other no matter how much
time we spend with each other or how much we’ve been talking to each other
already. ❤️ I miss the days when I would just go and pick you up after work and
send you home just to spend those 15 mins or so with you, spoiling you with
chocolates, green tea, Gong Cha, Koi and kisses.
This year and this LDR had been like a roller coaster ride
for the both of us. The good times were exhilarating and the down moments were
just plunging into shit holes. 😔 There were a lot of times we just felt like
dying and the nights grew so long it was unbearable to even stay awake.
However, I’m so glad we pulled though everything and got to this stage! Everything is not just about rainbows, unicorns and butterflies. Relationships
require a lot of compromising and ours is no exception. I would like to take
this opportunity to thank you for being patient and giving me chance after
chance to keep this fire alive. In the following journey to come, I will
continue to be patient and love you with all I have! 😘
❤️🍞
1. What did you think when you first met me?
Wow, this pretty girl actually agreed to go out with me!
2. What do you remember most about the night/day we first met?
KBOX!! Your grey top, black pants and shoes! Sushi inside the lounge! (and the way you eat sushi)
3. What about our relationship makes you really happy?
The fact that you are willing to compromise and spend as much time with me as possible!
4. How long did you think our relationship would last when we first started dating?
Hmmm. Im hoping for a very long time! Because when we decided to get together I really like you!
5. If you had one word to describe our relationship what would it be?
Extraordinary
6. If you had one word to describe our love what would it be?
Irreplaceable
7. What’s your biggest fear for this relationship?
Break up. ):
8. Do you believe there’s one person you’re ‘meant’ to be with?
YES! MY CUTIE TINY LITTLE BABY!
9. Do you believe in fate? destiny?
I believe in chances and choices. We pick our own fate!
10. What’s one difference between us that you absolutely love?
That you’re so outgoing and I'm not so. :x
11. What’s one similarity between us that you absolutely love?
That we’re both so clingy! Hahaha
12. What about me made you fall in love?
The fact that you care a lot
13. Is love something that scares you?
Initially, but its not love that I'm scared I realised, it’s the absence of it.
14. What about love scares you?
Refer to question 13!
15. What’s your favourite memory of us?
All our staycations! When we spend more than 24hrs together!(:
16. What’s one thing you want to do together that we’ve never done before?
Omg. There is a lot of things!! For a start, have a dog together!
17. If something happened where I had to move very far away, would you attempt long-distance? Or go our separate ways?
YES! I WILL ATTEMPT LONG-DISTANCE!
18. Where is your favourite place to be with me?
Baking in the comfort of our own place!! HAHAHAHA
19. What’s one thing you’re scared to ask me, but really want to know the answer to?
What happens if you get bored of me? ):
20. What’s one thing you feel our relationship is lacking?
We need to see each other more!! ):
21. What’s your favourite non-physical quality about me?
The way your brain works! The things you say and the way you see things!
22. What’s your favourite physical quality about me?
OMG! YOUR HAIR, YOUR EYES, YOUR HAND, YOUR FINGERS, YOUR TOES, YOUR BUTT
23. If our relationship ended, what’s the one thing about it you’d miss the most?
I’ll miss talking to you every night before we sleep. ): all our pillowtalks!
24. Do you think you’ve been vulnerable in our relationship?
I think so! Sometimes it just hurts so bad. ):
25. What do you think was your most vulnerable moment in our relationship?
When you don’t talk to me! ):
26. Do you think I’ve been vulnerable in our relationship?
There were a few, but you always shut yourself out when that happens. ):
27. What do you think has been the hands-down funniest moment since we started dating?
STARBUCKS!
28. What’s one quality about me that I see as a flaw that you absolutely love?
The smell of your hair!
29. What’s one secret you’ve wanted to tell me, but haven’t?
Last time when you fall asleep on the phone I’ll still not put down the phone just so I can listen to the sound of you sleeping. :x
30. Do you think there’s such thing as the ‘right’ person for you?
YES! Because theres no such thing as a “left” person!! HAHAHA
31. Do you think I’m the ‘right’ person for you? (If yes) What about me makes me the ‘right’ person?
YES! Because we can understand each other so well and we just know what each other is thinking about! (:
32. If I said you could date other people, would you?
NO! I ONLY WANT MY CUTIE TINY BABY PRINCESS!!
33. What do you think I’d say is your most attractive quality?
MY BAO FACE! HAHAHA
34. What’s your favourite way to show affection?
Kiss kiss hug hug!
35. What’s your favourite way to receive affection?
Kiss kiss hug hug!
36. What’s one thing you think makes our relationship unique from everyone else’s?
Even though we are in a LDR, our relationship is still stronger than most people!
37. If you could change one thing about our relationship what would it be?
NO LDR! ):
38. If we could go anywhere together right now, where would you want to go?
LETS GO TO NEVERLAND!!! Where we could have all the time in the world and never grow old!
39. What do you think is your biggest strength in this relationship?
My patience?
40. What’s your biggest weakness in this relationship?
I think I cry too much. ):
41. Who do you think is the most affectionate in our relationship?
ME!!!
42. How do you think we both have changed since we first started dating?
I think we’ve both matured in terms of our thinking and understanding for each other!
43. What about us both is exactly the same since we first started dating?
That we still love each other so much and it still feels like honeymoon even though its almost a year already!
44. What’s one thing I do that makes you feel good, that you wish I did more?
I love it when you bake!! HAHAHA!
45. What’s one thing about your life you would never change for someone else, including me?
My career choices?
46. What about us do you think works well together? How do we balance each other out?
The fact that I don’t get angry easily and sometimes I sort of made you more calm in situations that normally you’ll get angry
47. What’s one thing you hope happens in the future of our relationship?
We get to stay together with our own kids and dogs!!
48. What does love mean to you?
Love is an initial decision of attraction. Staying in a relationship is a choice of perseverance and commitment.
49. What do I mean to you?
I would not dare to imagine life without you. But life with you is all that I can imagine now and in the future. So you mean the world to me!
50. What does this relationship mean to you?
This relationship mean that I can go to bed knowing you’ll still be there the next day to talk to me and say goodmorning to me! So its my stronghold!
So I chanced upon thought catalog's post, on the 50 deep questions to ask your partner that will immediately bring each other closer (like nah we don't need that) but just for the fun of it, I made bae do it hehe so here are my set of answers for him!
Yet again, we have to part ways and be separated for months; only being able to see each other on skype, whatsapp calls, time difference, going through everyday independently, spending weekends with friends/alone, and not forgetting counting down to the next time he comes home to me again in November.
I'm glad he came back to Sg for these 2 weeks because I got to spend everyday with him; with him accompanying me through my study sessions at coffeebean, to do my nails, coming over to my place to make egg tarts with my mom, all his bombastic kisses and warm hugs and going everywhere to satisfy all his asian food cravings. I'm also thankful I didn't have school for when he's here in Sg, if not I would regret it so much for not spending enough time. I'm also grateful for him for meeting me everyday even though we didn't get much sleep due to the late nights and early mornings, so thank you for dragging out of bed for me baby.
Never have I expected these 2 weeks came to an end in a blink of an eye and now as I'm typing, he's already on the plane reaching Sydney in a few hours' time. I got so used to seeing him everyday now it's gonna be a struggle once again to get used not being with him for the next 3 months over. On a side note, school is going to take a toll on us and I'm just hoping we both will still make time for each other amongst our busy schedule.
I only wished you could stay a little longer so I could celebrate your birthday with you this year but it's okay, I'm not complaining because we finally got to eat our long craved prawn noodles few hours before your flight, heh. Oh well, we survived 4 months previously so I'm sure we will be able to handle LDR once again for the next few months although my heart still aches so much...
Study hard baby, I love you.
P.S my heart is bigger than the distance between us.
Hello baby!
That’ll be the 1st word I say
when I see her again 2 weeks later. These 3 weeks we spend together in Sydney
was really like a dream came true! There were laughs and there were tears.
Thankfully a lot more laughters than tears. :x I’ve waited for this for god
knows how long. Its like finally everything we’ve been striving for finally
became a reality. It’s really the best feeling in the world falling asleep with
the person you love next to you and waking up knowing they are still there.
Lets start with week 1. Before baby
appeared before me again at the airport, I was so nervous and excited. Its like
the feeling of picking her up for dates everytime in Singapore, playing the
scene of her smiling at me over and over again in my head. When we hugged each
other for the 1st time after so long, it was amazing. All my
feelings were pouring out as I held her tight, feeling her warm breath on my
neck and her the scent of her hair lingering around me. I’m glad our emotions
decided to express themselves through our hugs instead of tearing up our eyes,
or it’ll be a korean drama scene right in the heart of Sydney arrival hall.
Week 2. We made our way over to Melbourne.
Miss a few buses here and there and we witnessed the incredible taxi meter of
Australia. The numbers on the meter was jumping up twice as fast as the numbers
on the clock of my phone (seriously legit). Nevertheless, we reached Sydney
domestic airport in time and took the plane over to Melbourne. We stayed at the
airport and listen to this Indonesian-Australian lady who lived in Singapore
for 20(?) years selling us package deals to places we might wanna visit but
didn’t have the time to. So after 2+hrs, we decided on some 3 tourist
attraction deal for $86 thing; which was quite worth it! The zoo is a must of
cause and we went to the sea aquarium thing which was quite interesting too! I
got to admit though, sea food doesn’t look as delicious live. :/ Time in
Melbourne passed by in a flash! Everyday was waking up early, café hopping,
shopping, walking till our legs were giving up, and hotpot. P.S. No amount of
stinky shoes will be enough to damper our high spirits!
Week 3. 😔 The week with the most tears, of
various reasons. This week was the hardest to pass, yet time seemed to fly by the
fastest. Looking at the clock, it was like 1am, the next time we know, its
already 4. Dafaq? We enjoyed our last week in Sydney to the fullest we can,
visiting cafes and places we talked about, buying gifts for her family and
friends back in Singapore, revisiting places such as the karaoke place; because
what’s life without karaoke right? Lot’s of sea salt green tea, not much
alcohol because that’s what living healthy means and beer belly is still
visible even we were wrapped like dumplings.
Can’t wait for 2 weeks later when I fly
back to Singapore. Already missing my baby and all the silly things we both
laugh about. I would give an example, but I don’t want anyone to think that we’re
crazy. So im just going to leave it to your imagination of how funny we both
are together (btw, we often laugh till we’re in tears). Thank you for the
wonderful time again baby!
I Love You!
❤️🍞
